4 Best Ball Gags [Video Demonstration]

Nothing beats a ball gag when it comes to BDSM play or when you just want to keep your submissive quiet. Of the dozens of products I used, my absolute favorite is the Large Silicone Gag made by Bondage Boutique. As sturdy as it is comfortable, it hits all the right kinky points when it comes to satisfying bottoms and tops. Our reviewers gave the build quality, comfort, adjustable strap, and the non-porous material high ratings. In addition, it sells at an affordable price.

Why You Should Trust Us

Hi, I am M.Christian and I have been an active member of the BDSM community since the early 1990s. I have seen and done pretty much everything kinky you can imagine. These and other BDSM play activities have been on my alternative sexuality dance card, from mummification to flogging and piercings to intense power exchange.

Experiences I bring to my erotic fiction, and what is important for this look at this year’s tip-top ball, are my years as a sexual education journalist. My well-earned insight allows me to not only delve into their materials, manufacture, and kinky uses, but also which you should definitely purchase.

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How We Picked The Products

As a gag can be equally fun and risky, I put a lot of time and effort into weighing each of my selections for our review samples.

By fun, I am referring to various crucial aspects like design and manufacturing quality. Not to mention comfort and flexibility when using a ball gag. Since all types are prone to restricting the wearer’s ability to breathe, the most essential factor to consider is how easy they are to remove and how safe their materials are.

To give you an idea of how much work was put into our finalists, here is a list of the many test criteria that we could measure using well-defined quantitative metrics. Particularly why we could not recommend a product without examining the ways it meets or does not meet these criteria:

• Was a breathable silicone ball gag exceptionally well-made? Our emphasis on exceptional lies in how possibly risky they can be to wear.
• How much care went into its manufacture? Another safety feature to measure as poor-quality models can significantly increase the likelihood of injury.
• Flexibility? As no two people are built alike, so too should silicone ball gags have the option to fit as many different-sized heads as possible.
• Durability? As with anything we at My Sex Toy Guide review, any toy or BDSM tool should be able to be used for an extended period.
• Ease of cleaning? Another safety factor is how effectively and easily you can clean a breathable silicone ball gag before and after each use. Some materials, like hard plastic, require different cleaning supplies and procedures.
• Adaptability? Unlike flexibility, this is about many different ways they can be used. For example, if its ball can be exchanged or comes with an assortment of differently sized ones.
• Most ball gags are just that and nothing more. But then there are ones with extra added features like having attached nipple clamps. So too, some come with interchangeable balls. We are saying all of this needs to be considered before purchasing one.

During testing, we rated each test criterion on a percentage scale from 0% (Worst) to 100% (Best). We then calculated the overall score using different weighted metrics depending on the importance of the test criteria. Half the total rating comes from Design (25%) and Safety (25%). After that come Build Quality (10%), Manufacture (10%), and Maintenance (10%).

After my testers returned their results, I spent a lot of time engaged in further research. This ran from talking with Board-Certified sexologists and established BDSM community members. This also included reading over as many reviews as I could find.

Which eventually winnowed down the several dozen products my team had to consider to get to this, our seven great ball gags.

Everything We Tested

In this chapter, you can see a comparison table with all the products we tested. As you can see, each row has the test criteria our team used during the testing. To make our testing process even more transparent, we also included the raw test data so you can see how the products performed with each test criterion.

1. Bondage Boutique: Our Overall Test Winner!

Why I love Bondage Boutique:

As any BDSM enthusiast knows, silence can be golden and hot. For both, there is nothing better than Bondage Boutique’s gag. As affordable as it is exceptionally well-made, these sex toys are guaranteed to heat up your kinky play scenes as nothing else can.

Made from body-safe and extremely comfortable hypoallergenic materials, it can hush even the loudest of submissives. It is also a perfect five and a half inches in circumference, making it ideal for just about every sized mouth without ever being too loose or too tight.

Impressive flexibility is reflected in its high-quality, eleven-hole leather strap. Bondage Boutique will stay put regardless of the gender, body type, or size of whoever wears it.

So, with its mere $19 impressive affordability, quality manufacturing, non-porous materials, superb design, adjustable strap, and being so comfortable to wear, you can see why I’ve chosen Bondage Boutique’s ball gag as the best ball gag.

Minor issues I found during testing:

My biggest issue with the Bondage Boutique’s ball gag is the sometimes annoyingly sharp seam running around the ball. It may not be a big deal for some, but it can distract those of us with sensitive mouths.

If you want to see what the Bondage Boutique Large Silicone Ball Gag looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

Features:

• Material: The Ball Is Silicone, and The Strap Is Leather
• Strap Length: 23 Inches
• Color: Red Ball And Black Strap

Pros:

• Made of soft hypoallergenic materials
• The ball has a circumference of five and a half inches
• The 11-hole leather strap can fit most people’s heads
• Inexpensive at just $19

Cons:

• The ball size is only suitable for intermediate-level players
• The seam around the ball can sometimes be uncomfortable

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2. Fetish Fantasy Training System: Most Customizable!

Why I love Fetish Fantasy Training System:

When it comes to sex gags, you cannot just strap one on and immediately have a good time. Instead, these sex toys take a good amount of trial and error until they are arousing and pleasant.

Enter the Fetish Fantasy Breathable Ball Gag Training System, an innovative approach with many features that are better than its competition.

Not only that, but it is an amazingly effective way to go from a newbie to an experienced player without having to buy more than one breathable ball gag.

Because the Fetish Fantasy Breathable Ball Gag Training System comes with not one but three different-sized balls. Better yet, all are fitted with breathing holes, so the person wearing them will be distressed.

The breathable plastic balls are an inch and a half, an inch and three-quarters, and two inches in diameter. So it is a snap to go from larger to smaller as your needs and experience change.

The Fetish Fantasy Breathable Ball Gag Training System is an excellent balance between flexibility and strength. Its adjustable head strap accommodates users from 19 to 26 inches.

In addition, swapping one ball out for another is remarkably easy, which is another reason why I have been praising it as great for new and seasoned kinksters.

Minor issues I found during testing:

The only downside I found with the Fetish Fantasy Breathable Ball Gag Training System is how it tends to feel less well-made than the other models I tried. When we factor in how little it costs and what you get, it more than balances out.

You can read my full Fetish Fantasy Breathable Ball Gag Training System review here.

Features:

• Material: Plastic Ball, Strap Is Faux Leather
• Strap Length: 26 Inches
• Color: Black Ball And Strap, Similarly Colored Faux Leather

Pros:

• Balls come in three sizes, so it is an excellent kit for any beginner
• Balls are fitted with breathing holes, making them safe and easy to use
• The strap is faux leather and is solid yet comfortable.
• Affordable at $29.99

Cons:

• Some of our reviewers reported it felt cheap.

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3. Sportsheets Saffron Ball Gag: Most Beginner-Friendly!

Why I love Sportsheets Saffron Silicone Ball Gag:

If you are looking for a great introductory breathable product, the Saffron Ball Gag from Sportsheets may be just what you need. At 4.7 inches, its ball is neither too big nor too small. Instead, it is just right, arousing and allowing the wearer to breathe easily.

In addition, its straps (image below) are made of PU vegan leather, 9 inches long, they are as simple to adjust as secure.

We are particularly fond of its nickel-free metal fittings, including the buckle. This neat feature lets the wearer fine-tune it to their heart’s content or whoever they are playing with.

Then there’s how wonderfully easy it is to clean. All that is needed is warm water and some antibacterial soap; it is good to go!

All our testers praised its perfectly-sized ball and fully adjustable straps. How remarkably easy and comfortable it is to wear. Trust us when we say that the Saffron Silicone Ball Gag is a great place to start if you want to see why these types of BDSM gear are so popular.

Minor issues I found during testing:

Though our testers and I have a lot of good things to say about it, our testers did point out that the Saffron ball gag’s quality felt somewhat less than those we have tried before. Then there’s the issue of how tough it can sometimes be to wear. Several of our testers said the ball is too small to be effective, even for a newbie.

You can read our full Sportsheets Saffron Silicone Ball Gag review here.

Features:

• Material: Silicone Gag, PU Leather Straps
• Strap Length: 9 Inches
• Color: Ball And Strap Are Red And Black

Pros

• Clearly well-crafted with lots of impressive details.
• It’s without a doubt a stylish and sexy toy.
• As it’s made of non-natural materials, it’s easy to clean and maintain.

Cons

• The ball part is solid, without breathing holes.

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4. KBboy Ball Gag with Silicone Harness: Most Fancy Looking!

Why I love the KBboy Ball Gag with Silicone Harness:

Kink can sometimes be not only about feeling but also about looking good. Therefore, I’m awarding the KBboy Ball Gag with Silicone Harness, our Most Amazing, Most Stylish, and Most Fashionable toy, on our list of this year’s Best Ball Gags list.

From its body-safe rubber straps to its stainless steel fittings, not to mention its elegant, breathable ball, it is what all the best-dressed BDSM players will be wearing this season.

Pretty does not even come close to how good it looks. But this product would not be on our list if it did not feel great. That we can say in no uncertain terms is most assuredly does and some.

Its one and a half, one and three-quarters, and two-inch diameter balls are made to prevent the wearer’s teeth when biting down on it; then there is its strap with 8 holes and a finely-crafted buckle for getting it right where you or your submissive wants it to go.

Minor issues I found during testing:

All in all, the KBboy Ball Gag with Silicone Harness doesn’t have anything, in my opinion, that warrants a negative review. Its construction is sound; the materials certainly seem to be of exceptionally high quality, and it has lots of great little details, such as its three balls having adequate breathing holes.

That said, it seems like this model was designed to be less of an effective BDSM toy and more something only made to LOOK kinky. Case in point, ninety-nine percent of its buckles, belts, and parts aren’t really necessary. If anything, they do nothing but get in the way, making the whole arrangement more awkward and frustrating than actually arousing to play with.

• Material: Silicone Gag With Rubber Strap
• Strap Length: Difficult to measure
• Color: Black Ball, Black Strap

Pros

• Made of premium silicone and high-quality metal parts.
• Most of its many belts and buckles are easily adjustable.
• Comes with four locks (with three keys each) and three differently sized balls with appropriately-sized breathing holes.

Cons

• Ridiculously over-engineered, making it frustratingly difficult to use.
• More expensive than many other BDSM gags.
• A lack of dimensions may lead some to purchase something that doesn’t fit.

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Other Good Alternatives

Despite how much you enjoy your favorite kinky activities, sometimes you might yearn for something new. This is why our team was blown away by the DOMINIX Deluxe With Nipple Clamps. Taking what is so wildly hot about gags and adding in a pair of nipple clamps delivers two arousing sensations in a well-made, all-in-one toy.

For a far more intense experience, you cannot go wrong with this Posture Collar/Ball Gag Combo from Stockroom. Known far and wide for its superb BDSM equipment, this all-in-one product can be locked in place. A feature that nicely doubles down on how it feels by hitting both the gag and bondage kink checkboxes.

Another fantastic mixture of two different BDSM play experiences is what happens when a finely made silicone gag gets busy with a similarly high-quality dildo. The result is this meeting of the kinky minds, the Bondage Boutique Large Silicone Gag with Dildo. Strapping this toy on does not just give the wearer that so-hot ball gag sensation, but at the same time, they can pleasure someone else, compliments of its oral sex dildo.

And One To Avoid

If you have years (and years) of hands-on know-how with bondage play scenes under your belt, then, by all means, you might want to pick up a KBboy Silicone Mouth Gag With Lock. Otherwise, I cannot in good conscience recommend anyone buy this product. Perhaps I never learned to use it correctly, though, in my defense, Juliet Toy’s didn’t provide any instructions—or guidance on what might happen if it were used incorrectly. However, in my experience, this product is simply too poorly designed for anyone to use safely. Which, I have no problem saying, is the worst thing anyone can say about any kink-related product.

But Why Should I Buy One?

The main reason people use ball gags is to intensify sex or BDSM play. In short, a silicone gag humiliates the sub and makes them feel helpless. Many individuals find this arousing, and some even write humiliating words like “slave” or “whore” on the ball. The fact that the slave can’t speak means they are entirely under the dominant’s mercy.

Another reason is that it creates sexual tension in your BDSM role play. The fact that you can’t express your emotions by moaning and screaming means your body is filled with all sorts of stress that needs to be released. It will make you feel hornier, and in return, your body becomes easily aroused by your partner’s touch or kisses.

What Are The Different Types Of Gags?

As mentioned earlier, they all come in different shapes and sizes to cater to varied individuals. Read on to learn more about the types of ball gags for bondage:

Ball Gags

As the name suggests, this gag ball looks like a ball attached to a leather strap. The balls come in different sizes and designs and you can choose any color, though red is the most popular among users. The strap can be adjusted according to the size of the face, too.

Ring Gags & Spider Gags

If you don’t like balls in your partner’s mouth, buy a ring gag. It’s similar to a ball gag, except it has a hollow ring instead of a ball. The ring prevents choking and provides access to the mouth so your partner can give you oral sex if the ring is wide enough. Also, it causes the wearer to drool a lot! A variation is called spider gags, which are usually designed with more fetish attire. Read this article for the best spider gag models.

Lip Gags

Lip gags are also very common for those who love sub/Dom(me) play. Often made of soft silicone, the lips are attached to an adjustable leather strap to help secure the gag. The plump and somewhat exaggerated lips frame the wearer’s mouth, so as long as your partner’s wearing it, they are under your control. It’s also excellent for sissification, humiliation, and erotic power play.

Dildo Gags

Also known as a pecker, a dildo ball gag is what its name says. It’s a gag with a dildo attached and has a ring or BDSM muzzle to keep it in place. It’s a great addition to your extreme BDSM scene because you can keep your partner quiet and use a double dildo gag for a more pleasurable and satisfying experience. Further, you can use it with a riding crop or sex machine. (Find the best BDSM crop here.)

How To Use A Ball Gag?

Now that you know the different ball gags, it’s time to understand how to use one. Luckily, it doesn’t take a genius to learn how to put on a ball gag; as long as you or your partner trusts each other and agrees to use one, there are no worries. So, here are some tips on how to use it:

Note: BDSM/Bondage are advanced sex acts, and you must take great care when doing them. Any action you take upon the information on this website is strictly at your own risk, and we will not be liable for any losses, injuries, or damages. Learn more.

Use Only Sex Toys Made Of Safe Materials

One of the most important things to remember is to only use products made of safe materials like silicone. Hence, read the labels carefully and check the materials used in making the bondage ball gag. Keep in mind that some people have allergic reactions to silicone, latex, or leather.

Use A Non-Verbal Safeword

Like other bondage plays, you need to develop a safe word. However, it’s different in the case of wearing ball gags. Because your partner can’t speak or scream, you have to use a non-verbal safeword. You can be as creative as possible, like slamming your hand three times or pounding the bed or floor with your fist.

Note: The dominant must be aware of what’s happening and watch out for this non-verbal safeword. Remember that your partner relies on you!

Never Use During Colds And Blocked Noses

Although using ball gags can be very sexy, you should never wear them with a cold or clogged nose. Wearing one can already affect your breathing, and using it when you’re not feeling well can worsen things. You’ll never be able to enjoy your sex play, and you’ll be putting the wearer’s life in danger. The same goes for an upset stomach.

Never Leave The Sub Alone

Be responsible for your partner. In bondage, the sub is entirely under the control of the dominant. Imagine having your mouth gagged and your hands tied at the same time. If you’re all alone and something comes up, you won’t be able to scream for help. As the dominant, ensure your sub is always safe. Hence, always remove it if you have to leave, even for a short while.

Have Safety Shears Handy

Nothing’s perfect, even ball gags, which can malfunction anytime. For example, you may have trouble unclasping the belt that keeps them in place. Hence, this is why you should always have rope scissors handy. In case of malfunction, you can just cut the belt and save your partner the trouble and pain of being gagged for a long time.

Secure Jewelry And Hair

This point is especially true among women with long hair and jewelry. When it comes to wearing ball gags, safety is the main priority. Hence, remove necklaces and earrings, which can get in the way of your bondage scene.

Furthermore, if you have long hair, tie it and keep it away from your face. It’s enough that you can’t speak already because of the mouth gag, but having your hair all over can ruin the mood!

Never Wear It Too Long (Especially For Beginners)

Perhaps your partner would like to have a bondage marathon and insists that you wear the ball gag for a while. The truth is it’s not advisable to wear it too long. Aside from limiting speech and sound, the bit gag also strains the facial muscles and the mouth. It will feel uncomfortable and painful when wearing one for a long time. (More on BDSM bit gags here)

M.Christian

M.Christian loves nothing better than exploring the intersections of sex and technology. They regularly appear on sites like Kinkly, Tickle.Life, Sexpert, Queer Majority, Killing Kittens, Sex for Every Body, Future of Sex, and dozens more on topics like BDSM safety, sexual education, senior sexuality concerns, queer and gender issues, as well as reviewing numerous sextech products and adult entertainment sites.
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