Sex Position: Date Night Dessert

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On April 27, 2025

Have you been thinking of ways to spice up your date nights? Are meals starting to feel monotonous and stale? Put yourself on the menu and skip straight to the Date Night Dessert position to reignite the spark in your relationship.

Bondara Sex Toys Blog - Sex Position: Date Night Dessert

Before We Start

Date Nights can be an excellent, low-budget way to connect with our partners in a familiar space. By trying new foods, playing an intimate card game, or cooking together, every part of the evening can bring you closer together.

Today, I’ll introduce you to this sweet dessert-themed activity and how to incorporate it into your night of romance so that you can add an element of fun to your evening and strengthen your bond.

Before we get started, it’s a good idea to re-familiarise yourself with our cunnilingus tips and tricks, as this manoeuvre is one you’ll want to lap right up… if you get what I mean.

How Do I Do It?

You’ll want to cultivate a calm and welcoming environment like any date night. The right atmosphere is essential to creating a memorable vibe, one that you can look back on and reminisce over. Lighting candles and playing relaxing music is a great way to curate this moment.

Choose a light meal or a sweet dessert that is easy to prepare and visually appealing. Sharing food like this can be fun and sensual. Engaging a singular sense, such as taste, is a great way to get in touch with your body. If you and your partner are comfortable, try some of your meal while wearing a blindfold. With the help of your partner, of course.

Once you’ve enjoyed the tastes of food, the evening can transition to the date night dessert, which is equally as explorative. However, clear the table to avoid a messy cleanup!

The bottom will want to take an unconventional seat at the table, in a straddle facing the back of their chair. You’ll then want them to lean back, letting the table support your shoulders and head.
The top will want to climb on the table, gently sit on their partner’s face, and lean their weight on the back of the dining chair.
Bon Appetit!

Why Should I Try This Sex Position?

Because it’s hot, duh? But seriously, there’s no shame in admitting that the go-to positions for oral sex can get a little stale. Changing things up can solve that and make it exciting again! Whether incorporating it into dinner as dessert or the pure appeal of breaking a taboo by using the table, little changes make a big difference.

Plus, if you find that traditional oral sex positions such as lying on your bed (especially if the giver is on their belly) gives you neck ache, this kind of position provides better support.

Make It More Orgasmic

All the right ingredients…

Sex Aids:

Build up to oral with a couple of love drops at dinner to raise libidos and guarantee there’s room for dessert.

Plus, add a squirt of orgasm cream for heightened sensitivity to complete your sweet treat.

Taste sensation…

Flavoured lube:

An obstacle to amazing oral sex is the flavour of someone’s genitals. Either because you don’t like your partner’s taste or you’re self-conscious about your own.

I’d usually recommend stern words for anyone who won’t do oral because of taste—especially if they have no problem receiving. However, if the worry is getting in the way of enjoying yourself, flavoured lube makes you taste as sweet as any dessert.

Tag team tonguing…

Foreplay Vibrators:

Why limit yourself to just using your mouth? Whether you’re dabbling with analingus or lavishing attention on the whole vulva, there’s always another body part to play with.

Using a small vibrator, like a bullet or clitoral stimulator, you can add an extra buzz to your oral expertise without the sex toy getting in the way of your tongue.

Not For You?

Here at Bondara, we know everyone likes to knock boots, so we are working to ensure everyone is represented on our website.

We are committed to inclusivity and diversity. So, we are depicting a range of genders and sexual orientations in our Sex Position blog posts, including straight, gay, lesbian and gender-neutral couples. All instructions will detail how to make our sex positions work for any relationship.