The Best Inclusive and Accessible Sex Toys for Everyone

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On May 10, 2025

Everyone deserves pleasure. This is a fundamental human right. To be able to enjoy the many delights of being in these bodies.

However, everyone has different levels of accessibility and ease with which they can access this pleasure. There have been more and more conversations around inclusivity and accessibility in every area of life, and we also need to be having these conversations in the context of pleasure.

Many people with physical disabilities or different levels of mobility aren’t able to use your average sex toys. That’s why more and more brands are creating inclusive sex toys that allow people to access pleasure in ways that work for their bodies.

Sex toy brands are evolving to meet people’s diverse needs, and we’re here to give you the download!

What Makes a Sex Toy Inclusive?

“Inclusive” can mean a lot of different things depending on the context. It’s important to note that while brands are aiming to make disability-friendly pleasure products as inclusive as possible, different people need different levels of accessibility. That being said, there are a few main things that help to make sex toys more inclusive.

One way brands are doing this is by making ergonomic adult toys that are designed for different mobility levels. This includes toys that are easier to grip, maneuver, and control for people with varying levels of mobility or for those who have chronic pain. Some mobility-friendly adult toys have different angles to hit erogenous zones more easily, or they may have more strategic buttons that are easier to navigate.

Adding adaptive features like making disability friendly vibrators hands-free and using voice-activated controls allows people to access sexual pleasure who may otherwise have a difficult time doing so.

It’s also important to consider gender inclusive sex toys when designing accessible sex toys. To do this, brands are avoiding gendered language and packaging, while also designing toys for diverse anatomies.

Best Inclusive and Accessible Sex Toys

Not sure where to look for the best inclusive and accessible sex toys? We’re here to offer some guidance on the best accessible vibrators.

Disability-Friendly Vibrators: These are easy-to-use, hands-free, or may be remote-controlled.

The app-controlled IDA Wave uses LELO’s patented WaveMotion™ technology with two powerful motors that offer simultaneous clitoral and G-spot stimulation. Take your time slowly, connect the app to explore more vibrating patterns, and surrender to the updated design that suits all shapes and sizes for a perfect fit.

Gender-Neutral Toys: Unisex designs that cater to diverse bodies.

The SORAYA Beads is a gender-neutral anal beads massager designed for those just getting into anal play exploration. Its unique cascading design aims to arouse the sensitive nerve endings in and around the anus for a new type of orgasmic sensation, starting with the smallest bead, followed by three progressively larger ones.

Adaptive Toys: Products designed for those with mobility restrictions.

This can include a wide range of toys, including ones that are lightweight and easy to hold or even vibrators with a loop handle for those with arthritis. Wearable vibrators like vibrating panties allow for stimulation without having to hold anything in place.

The SMART WAND 2 Large allows users to stimulate areas that may otherwise be difficult to reach.

Easy-to-Hold and Lightweight Options: Sex toys with ergonomic grips and intuitive controls.

The ENIGMA Double Sonic is app-controlled with an ergonomic internal stimulator. The new DeepSonic™ technology targets the hard-to-reach A-spot located slightly behind the G-spot, using a unique sonic tip on the insertable tail, while also stimulating the clitoris and G-spot.

How to Choose the Right Accessible Sex Toy

So, how do you choose the right accessible sex toy for you? First, you have to take into consideration your personal needs and mobility restrictions. Unfortunately, not every inclusive sex toy will be accessible for everyone.

This is something you’re probably very familiar with if you’re used to navigating the world with a disability. Brands are working to make things more accessible, but of course, it can take time to figure out how to adapt to unique needs.

When buying a sex toy, it’s always important to look for materials that are body-safe and easy to clean properly. You also want to take into account whether you have any safety considerations to think about when using a sex toy. Of course, we want everyone to be able to navigate their pleasure in a safe and comfortable way.

It can be a bit overwhelming to look at all the different features available and determine which ones are right for you. Some features to think about are how the devices are controlled, which could be with buttons, voice-controlled, or app-controlled. You’ll also want to look at how you hold or grip a device, along with button placement, and how ergonomic its shape is.

Brands Leading in Inclusive and Adaptive Sex Toys

As technology evolves, more and more brands are offering inclusive and adaptive sex toys. LELO is one of the brands that is leading the charge in creating innovative design and utilizing changing technology.

Some of the most innovative designs that we’re seeing in the world of inclusive sex toys are customizable or modular toys, voice or motion-activated toys, and “invisible” wearables that are designed for stimulation without requiring any active holding.

Ultimately, finding the right inclusive sex toy for you involves taking into consideration your unique needs compared with what is available on the market today. It can be helpful to talk to other people in the community as well as read reviews and look at online forums to learn about other people’s experiences. We hope this guide helped give you more guidance and a bit of a nudge to explore more inclusive sex toys that enhance pleasure for all.

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