Accommodator Silicone Dong Review – My Sex Toy Guide

Now and then, a sex toy pops up that makes you stop and think… seriously? That was exactly my reaction when I saw the Accommodator Silicone Dong by CalExotics – a chin-mounted dildo strapped directly to your face.

It sounds like a punchline, and honestly, it looks like one too. But I was curious. Could this be more than just a silly novelty? Could it actually add something to oral?

I grabbed the black version (white and brown are also available) and set out to test the theory. And here’s the thing: it works. It’s lightweight, hands-free, flexible, and – in the right position – genuinely fun.

But it’s not perfect. There’s a learning curve. It’s not the most comfortable over longer sessions. And depending on your play style, it might end up back in the drawer after the first few uses. Still, if you’re into oral and open to experimenting, the Accommodator might just surprise you.

Key Takeaways

The Accommodator Silicone Dong is weird, messy, and unexpectedly hot. It’s not a high-end toy, and it won’t replace your mains, but it brings something unique to the table. If you’re into oral and want to add hands-free penetration to the mix, it can absolutely deliver. The silicone build isn’t perfect, and there’s a learning curve, but once you find your rhythm, it’s a filthy little game-changer for the right couple.

Who Should Try It? The Accommodator Silicone Dong is a fun pick for couples who enjoy giving and receiving oral and want to spice things up with something a little wild. If you’re curious about hands-free stimulation or enjoy layered sensations during foreplay, this could be right up your alley. It also works surprisingly well as a cheeky but functional bachelorette gift – more than just a laugh, it’s a sex toy that delivers when used right.

Who Can Skip It? This isn’t a great fit for anyone expecting strong thrusting or deep, intense penetration—it’s built for gentle, steady motion and coordination. Solo users looking for something they can use on their own won’t get much out of it either, as it’s really designed for partnered play. If you’re not into the idea of strapping a cock to your face (understandably), it might be one to leave in the novelty bin.

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What Is the Accommodator Silicone Dong?

The Accommodator Silicone Dong is one of those sex toys you almost expect to be a joke – until you strap it on and realize it actually works. It’s a lightweight, silicone dildo that sits just under your mouth, held in place with two stretchy head straps. The goal? To deliver penetration while your tongue stays busy elsewhere.

CalExotics designed it for oral enthusiasts who want to offer more than tongue and fingers. Whether you’re aiming for internal stimulation during oral, or giving your partner something to grind on mid-foreplay, the Accommodator turns your whole face into a sex toy.

It’s not the most sophisticated device out there, but for couples who love experimenting, it’s a solid way to mix things up. Just be prepared for a bit of a learning curve – and maybe some awkward laughter the first time you try it.

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First Impressions & Features

Unboxing

The Accommodator Silicone Dong arrives in a box that’s… fine. Not flashy, not premium. Just thin cardboard with a graphic that pretty much tells you everything you need to know (a chin, a dong, and two straps). CalExotics clearly isn’t trying to win awards for presentation here. No foam inserts, no sealed pouches, no instruction card. Just open the flap and there it is, ready to strap on.

Inside, I received the dong already attached to the harness: a 5-inch silicone shaft (about 1.25 inches wide) mounted on two thin, stretchy bands. It felt featherlight and a bit flimsy at first touch, with that unmistakable tire-store silicone smell that hits you straight away. Not sexy but not unexpected either for silicone toys.

A quick wash in warm, fragrance-free soapy water helped tone down the scent, and I left it to air out before trying it on. There’s no pouch or storage option included, which fits the no-frills vibe of the whole thing. It’s bare-bones, but that tracks with the price point.

Features

• Wearable design (chin-mounted)
• Flexible silicone material
• Two stretchy straps for adjustment
• Waterproof
• No batteries or moving parts
• Available in black, white, and brown

Quick Specs

• Total length: 5 in (12.75 cm)
• Width: 1.25 in (3.25 cm)
• Material: Silicone
• Weight: 2 oz
• Strap system: Two silicone bands with metal adjusters (around the head and neck)
• Waterproof and fully washable

How Do I Use the Accommodator?

Using the Accommodator Silicone Dong takes a little setup and a bit of experimentation. It’s a wearable penis that’s meant to be strapped onto your face, specifically your chin, but the fit and angle can make a big difference in how it feels for both partners.

Start by slipping the lower strap over the back of your neck, letting the dildo rest against your chest. Then pull the upper strap over the crown of your head, securing it so the shaft sits under your bottom lip or directly on your chin. Adjust the straps until everything feels snug but not constricting, tight enough to hold the toy steady, but loose enough to let you move your head without strain.

The placement matters. Wearing it higher gives you more freedom to use your tongue for external stimulation while the dildo does its thing. Lower placement gives you a deeper angle for penetration but makes it harder to multitask orally.

You’ll also want to rethink your rhythm. This product isn’t built for pounding thrusts. It works best with slow, steady grinding (think face-to-pelvis sways rather than chin-jabbing). Too much force and you might lose the angle… or your dignity when your neck cramps mid-session.

And while it’s marketed as a face toy, it’s flexible enough to get creative with. You can strap it to your thigh and let your partner ride it hands-free for a whole different kind of show.

The key to getting the most out of the Accommodator? Lube generously, go slow, and communicate the whole time. It’s a team sport so play accordingly.

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My Personal Experience

I didn’t know exactly what to expect with the Accommodator Silicone Dong, but I was curious (and horny) enough to give it a proper go. My partner and I took turns testing the fit. I wore it first, adjusting the dong under my lip, and tried a few slow chin thrusts.

At first, it was awkward. I couldn’t quite sync my tongue and the dildo at the same time. But after a few tweaks and less force, it started to work. Slower rhythm, more control, and suddenly it wasn’t just hilarious. It was genuinely hot.

Then she wore it. I lay back and let her take control, and that feeling of being filled while her hands roamed free? Way more satisfying than I expected. Bit wobbly and not the most stable setup. But when it hits, it really hits.

Design

The Accommodator Silicone Dong has a surprisingly functional shape for something that straps to your face. The dong curves slightly with a rounded head, and the silicone gives it a soft bounce that’s gentle during thrusts-no jabbing or poking. It’s not a power toy, but for slow, controlled movement, it does the job.

The straps are basic (more elastic headband than harness) but they’re stretchy and easy to adjust. You won’t feel locked into place, but that’s not the point. It’s about intimacy, not intensity.

Material

The Accommodator is made from light, bendy silicone with a soft, rubbery feel. It’s phthalate-free, body-safe, and holds up fine for what it’s meant to do. You’re not getting luxury here, but you are getting a toy that’s waterproof, easy to rinse off, and low maintenance. No fancy coatings or extra features – just straightforward silicone that does the job and doesn’t throw a tantrum during cleanup.

Stimulations

The magic of the Accommodator isn’t in wild thrusting or deep penetration; it’s in the combo. Mouth plus dong. Chin plus clit. Thrust plus tongue.

For the receiver, it creates a layered sensation, especially if they enjoy shallow internal pressure paired with oral. For the wearer, it’s less about physical pleasure and more about feeling wickedly in control.

It’s not explosive on its own. But when it works? It’s filthy, fun, and completely unique.

Build Quality

You’re not getting high-end craftsmanship here, but you’re also not paying for it. The Accommodator Silicone Dong is light and flexible, and while the silicone is thin, it holds its shape well.

The straps (image above) can stretch out over time, and things may shift mid-action-especially if you’re sweaty or moving around a lot. But that’s pretty standard for any wearable gear that’s made from elastic.

Handle it gently, clean it well, and it’ll last longer than you’d expect from a novelty item.

Ease of Use

Strapping it on takes seconds. Mastering it takes patience.

The best way to figure out placement is to test it solo in front of a mirror. Try it low on the chin, then higher under your lip-wherever gives you the best range for your tongue and face angle.

If you’ve got facial hair, give it a trim. The straps can pull or shift during use, and you’ll want a snug fit to avoid slipping.

This isn’t a “pop it on and go” toy-it’s a collaboration tool. The smoother your rhythm, the better the ride.

Versatility

The Accommodator is made for face-to-crotch play, but that’s not its only trick. Strap it on during oral, let your partner grind against your chin, or even pop it on your thigh for a change of angle.

CalExotics claims thigh use is an option (and technically, it works) but the real magic happens during oral. It’s cheeky fun for power flips, partner play, and role reversal.

Take turns. Get creative. It’s the kind of toy that shines with improvisation.

Warranty and Support

You get a 1-year warranty from CalExotics, which is a decent safety net for something at this price point.

I didn’t need to reach out to support, but they’ve got a good rep overall. Considering how niche this toy is, it’s nice to know there’s a backup if it arrives damaged or falls apart too early.

Cleaning

Silicone is low-maintenance, but it does need care. Rinse with warm water and mild soap right after use. Dry it completely before storing it to avoid mildew or wear.

Skip silicone-based lubes and strong cleaners-they’ll break the silicone down over time.

And if you want to be extra, store it flat in a fabric pouch or breathable bag. Avoid sunlight, folds, and stuffing it into drawers. Silicone likes a bit of breathing room, just like you after a long oral session.

Minor Issues I Found During Testing

• Smells rubbery out of the box (wears off)
• Not ideal for heavy thrusting
• The strap can pull hair or shift during play
• Doesn’t offer stimulation to the wearer
• Won’t suit people with silicone allergies

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Alternatives to the Accommodator Silicone Dong

If the Accommodator left you curious but not quite satisfied, there are a few other toys worth exploring, each with their own flavor of filthy fun.

Sportsheets PIVOT “In Your Face” Strap-On

If you’re still chasing that face-riding fantasy but want something with better adjustability and a less novelty feel, the PIVOT might hit the spot. It uses a strap system rather than stretchy bands and comes with a firm, body-safe dildo that’s built to stay put. Not a squirter, but ideal for hands-free grinding and dominant oral sessions.

You can read my full Sportsheets Pivot In Your Face Strap-On review here.

Orange Is The New Black Dick Gag

A totally different vibe, but still face-mounted and filthy. Instead of chin-thrusting, this one straps a cock right into your sub’s mouth. Faux leather straps, bold orange stitching, and a firm silicone dildo make it feel more polished than the Accommodator — but it’s for silence and submission, not dual stimulation. Great if you want them stuffed and obedient, not multitasking with their tongue.

Do you want more options? We have tested many more chin dildos and face dildos in these articles.

I am Sold! Where Can I Buy It?

You can buy it on Shevibe using this link.

Thanks for reading my Accommodator Silicone Dong review!

Rachel

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Rachel is a clinical sexologist with a focus on LGBTQ+ and BIPOC issues. Originally from Texas, she loves sushi, white wine, and spending time with her partner Jessica. She has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Yahoo.com, Women’s Health, Healthline, Glamour, and MindBodyGreen.
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