Bondage Boutique Seduce Me Lover’s Bed Bondage Kit Review

Bondage Boutique is here with their Seduce Me Lover’s Bed Bondage Kit for everyone who has considered taking the plunge into kink but hasn’t yet invested in the basic equipment. It’s got six pieces, all of them matching in black with rose gold, that can take your Monday-night sex routine in a decidedly deviant direction. Further, the whole thing is under $100. This kit was clearly curated by a bondage aficionado, but will it help you seamlessly and discreetly level up your power play? Let’s find out together in this review.

Key Takeaways

People who have cobbled bondage equipment together will want to upgrade to this gorgeous matching set. The value is incredible, and the quality is excellent. It’s also a must-have for people who are new to bondage and want an easy-to-use, discreet way to keep restraints handy for when the mood strikes. I’m obsessed with this kit.

Who Should Try It? This kit is the best one I’ve tried for people who are new to bondage or new to buying kinky props. It’s a bargain, and it’s perfect for people who want something high-end that matches their aesthetic.

Who Can Skip It? If you already have most of the pieces and don’t care about matching, you can skip this. People who are expert-level BDSM players will probably have a list of criteria for playthings that this may not meet. It won’t work for pain puppies, either, as the flogger is lightweight.

You Can Buy It on the Lovehoney website for $89.99. Use discount code AFF-MSTG10 for 10% off.

What Is the Seduce Me Lover’s Bed Bondage Kit?

The Bondage Boutique Seduce Me Lover’s Bed Bondage Kit is the perfect starting place for people who want to invest in their love of bondage and make it part of their everyday life. People without bedposts often end up tying their partner’s hands together or hunting around the house for something they can affix them to. That can really take the heat out of your hookup in a hurry. But this affordable kit includes under-mattress straps, ankle and wrist restraints that attach to them, a ball gag, a flogger, and a blindfold. It’s everything you need to get started!

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First Impressions and Features

Unboxing

My Bondage Boutique Kit came in a plastic bag, making the unboxing feel like more of an unbagging. The plastic bag isn’t particularly giftable, but it keeps everything you need together. It’s not super luxe, but the lack of a container keeps the price low. It’s a win for the wallet!

Features

The Seduce Me Lover’s Bed Bondage Kit has seductive features, including:

• Six matching pieces
• Under-bed restraint system (compatible with beds up to king size), including ankle and wrist cuffs
• Matching blindfold, flogger, and ball-gag
• Faux leather
• Rose gold clasps

Specifications

Seduce Me Lover’s Bed Bondage Kit specifications at a glance:

• Material: Faux leather, faux fur lining, Velcro
• Size: Blindfold: 19-23” around; wrist cuffs up to 10” in circumference, ankle cuffs up to 12.5” in circumference, 5.5” silicone ball gag with a strap that adjusts between 16-22”, bed straps that will fit beds up to king size
• Color: Black and rose gold
• Mechanism: Under-bed restraints, flogger, ball gag, and blindfold
• Weight: 1.75 lbs

How Do I Use the Seduce Me Lover’s Bed Bondage Kit?

I’ve got great news: there’s not much setup for this bondage kit. The best thing you can do to set yourself up for success is to ensure you have lube on hand and buy a storage bag if you want to keep it all together.

Slide the bed restraints under your mattress before the next time you think your partner will be up for something kinky. Ensure that the clasps are near where your partner’s ankles and legs will be, which may be the side of the bed or the top of the bed. The easier they are to grab, the less intrusive your props will be.

When it’s time to play, talk to your partner about what they’re comfortable with before getting started. Then, secure the blindfold around their head with the belt loop, place the ball gag in their mouth after washing it thoroughly, and use the cuffs at the same time if that’s the vibe. Remember when you use a ball gag to agree on a nonverbal safe word because the submissive is about to be unintelligible, in the good way.

The flogger is essentially foolproof, which is why it’s so spot-on for beginners. The falls are lightweight, narrow, and short. Even with a nice swing, your partner will feel a slight sting rather than thuddy pain. Start slowly anyway and ramp up as you are comfortable. When you are done, you can leave the under-bed portion of the restraints right where they are. Stick the rest of the stuff in a storage bag or a drawer of your nightstand until next time.

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My Personal Experience

My first foray into bondage occurred when I was much younger, and my partners and I used what we had lying around. Scavenging for restraints and gags was fun when I was younger, but the sexy, sensual bondage kits available now are much more appropriate and feel like a necessity rather than a luxury. Not only that, but they’re safer. Getting tied to a bedpost with a necktie was fine when I was 19, but looking back, if I had had less knowledgeable partners, I could have ended up in the ER. Ties can be tied too tightly, and no one enjoys coming up with an excuse for why a necktie is cutting off circulation to their hands.

Getting a bondage kit is the adult move for people who love bondage and engage in it frequently. My partner and I have tested this kit for months, and not one piece shows signs of wear yet. That’s a feat for a six-piece kit that’s so affordable.

Pro-tip: grab an extra lobster clasp or two. I like to take my bondage scenes on the go, meaning I’m not always in bed when I’m getting tied up. Instead of mourning the fact that I can’t be restrained, I just use an extra lobster clasp with this set of ankle and wrist cuffs, and then they can be affixed to each other.

When we tried the blindfold, it worked better on my partner than on me. I have a smaller nose and could see a sliver of the room with it on, but my partner’s sight was blacked out entirely. The ball gag was intense for both of us and more fun than we planned. I was shocked that it worked so well since my partner’s mouth is so much larger than mine, but it shut both of us up like a charm.

The flogger was a dream, too. We both prefer stingy sensations, and this rose gold flogger delivered. This is one of my most-used sex toy kits of all time, which says a lot. It’s so pretty, and every piece is addictive.

Design

Design is as important as function with sexy BDSM equipment. And I’m happy to report that this kit is sexy as hell. I felt fancy while wearing it. It’s just too pretty. And though the rose gold might feel like it’s geared toward femme subs, my masculine partner looked hot as hell when he donned the wrist and ankle cuffs and blindfold.

The design of everything from the restraints to the flogger is made to last, easy to hold, and comfy to wear. My jaw is still on the floor after comparing the kit’s cost to the quality it provides.

The one design choice I didn’t love was the belt buckle on the back of the blindfold. It was fine when my partner wore it, but it got tangled in my hair if I moved around much. Believe me, I like having my hair pulled, but not ripped out by a buckle. It is tough to make a blindfold one-size-fits-all, comfortable to lie on, and easy to remove, so I understand why they used a buckle.

The cuff’s clasp design is A+. It works well and couldn’t be easier to figure out, even if you’re in a rush to get them off.

Material

The luxe material is one of the biggest selling points of this beginner’s bondage kit. The faux fur-lined cuffs are comfortable to wear for hours. I didn’t want to take them off because they are so cozy. The faux fur lining is much softer than I imagined before trying on the cuffs.

Better yet, the materials used are durable. The clasps haven’t scratched, and the restraints have held up well to repeated testing. Plus, it stays in place. There’s no wriggling out of the cuffs or ball gag. It’s sturdy.

Build Quality and Dimensions

The ball gag was a rather ambitious size, at least for this TMJ-having sub. I could only wear it for minutes at a time before I developed a headache, but more experienced subs will have an easier time.

The wrist and ankle cuffs fit around me easily, but they fit around my much bigger partner too—with room to spare. He has a large head, and the blindfold fit around his head using the very loosest hole. People with extra-large heads should be prepared to notch out a looser hole with a knife if necessary. However, my partner has the largest head I’ve ever encountered, so since he can wear this comfortably, I think it will fit almost anyone.

Ease of Use

Making BDSM easier to access is exactly what this kit does. Everything included is easy to put on, remove, and enjoy. The flogger can give a good sting but is not so heavy-duty as to be dangerous, which is clutch. There’s no learning curve, so if you use common sense, you do not have to worry about hurting your partner in an unwanted way. It’s the perfect combination for someone dipping their toes into BDSM.

Versatility

The versatility of this kit is decent. You can use this with people of any gender. It will work altogether or by using part of the kit at a time. The Bondage Boutique Seduce Me Lover’s Bed Bondage Kit would also work with multiple partners.

However, it won’t work for people with larger extremities or heads, and the straps won’t be long enough for beds larger than king-sized.

Warranty and Support

The Seduce Me Lover’s Bed Bondage Kit is covered by a 30-day warranty during which you can return it for a refund if it’s unopened and unused. It’s also covered by a one-year warranty on defective materials or workmanship.

Minor Issues I Found During Testing

This is one of my favorite all-time kits, so coming up with a complaint was no small feat. The only downsides are that it’s not packaged very giftably and it won’t work for people with very large heads, ankles, or wrists.

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Review Summary

Pros

• Great value for the price
• Perfect for BDSM newbies
• Gorgeous, matching pieces
• Will fit most beds and sizes of people
• Durable

Cons

• Won’t work for people with extra-large heads, wrists, or ankles
• Comes in a plastic bag

Alternatives to the Seduce Me Lover’s Bed Bondage Kit

Bondage Boutique Under Mattress Restraint

The Bondage Boutique Under Mattress Restraint is cheaper than the full kit, costing only $50. It’s plain black, but the quality is the same. I prefer the rose gold accents, but your mileage may vary. For the price, the Bondage Kit is the way to go if you can afford it, since you get wrist and ankle cuffs, a ball gag, a flogger, and a blindfold for just $40 more.

You can read my full Bondage Boutique Under Mattress Restraint review here.

Do you want more options? We have tested many more BDSM toys in this article.

I am Sold! Where Can I Buy It?

Grab your six-piece under-bed full-body restraint kit here.

Thanks for reading my Bondage Boutique Seduce Me Lover’s Bed Bondage Kit review!

Angela

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Angela Kempf is a Denver-based writer whose sexual health writings have been published in a number of notable online publications. She enjoys B movies, yoga, traveling, and puns. When she’s not reading or writing, she’s usually on the hunt for the best tacos in town.
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