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Oh Joy Sex Toy – Just Dom It by Caede17223

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Caede is a femme-presenting nonbinary who uses they/them pronouns but goes by she/her in kink settings. They have blue eyes, shoulder-length wavy brown hair, and wears glasses, blue oversized hoodie, and black thigh-high socks. With a mix of looking nervous and very curious, They look upwards in wonder at the silhouette of the cityscape behind her, with a big blue, cloudy sky creating an open, uplifting backdrop of possibilities overhead.
Narration: When I moved to the big city, I saw a million opportunities in front of me. I was ready to explore! Ready to find myself! Ready to go to my first ever femdom event!
The view plummets back down to earth, showing Caede shuffling along the sidewalk with their hands in their hoody pocket, fretting awkwardly among the much more confident and stylishly dressed people who are heading to the same door.
Narration: Okay, maybe I wasn’t THAT ready.
“Your ID please.” Requests the door greeter.
“S-sure!” Replies Caede as they awkwardly hold up their card, looking nervous and frazzled.
“Awesome, have fun!” The door greeter says with a friendly thumbs-up.
“Whoah,” Thinks Caede, poking their head in through a door to a crowded, dimly lit room. “that’s a lotta people!” People wear a variety of party and fetish-y clothing, including chained dog collars and cute, tight clubbing dresses.
Caede walks around, nervously inspecting the various bondage instruments in the room, such as ball gags, handcuffs, floggers, and eye masks.
“Hey!” A tall, blond woman in shiny bondage gear interrupts Caede’s thoughts, startling them. “First time?” She has brown eyes and her long hair is pulled back into a sweeping ponytail. She is tall and evokes the image of the classic femdom that appears in porn.
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“Haha, do I look that nervous?” They asks sheepishly.
With a smile, the woman replies, “Don’t worry, that’s totally normal.”
“Really? ‘Cause I feel super out of place.” Admits Caede.
“Oh?” The woman asks with concern. “Why?”
“Well, because I don’t look or act…” Caede replies thoughtfully, imagining confident dominatrixes in sexy tiny outfits and assertively wielding BDSM tools. “…like a ‘real’ domme, right?”
“That’s not true!” The blonde domme answers. “Look around! You don’t always see this in porn…”
Caede and the femdom overlook a montage of diverse couples, all engaged in in intimate, tender moments with each other. One sub kneels with their hands restricted behind their back, a sleeping mask covers their eyes and their domme gentle runs a finger along the strap of the ball gag in their mouth. The domme kneels beside their sub, wearing a small shiny black leather tube dress with a choker necklace. Another domme wears a collared business-like blouse and slacks while tenderly stroking the hair of their sub, who kneels before them, hugging the domme around their torso and resting their head against the domme’s chest. The third couple features a person wearing a thick dog collar that is attached to a leash that is held by a purple-haired domme in a frilly made costume.
The blonde domme continues, “…but dommes all have their own style!”
“Wow! You’re right!” Gasps Caede in awe.
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Now sitting on a couch together, the domme asks Caede, “So what’s your style? Have you thought about that?”
“Hmm, I’ve only really thought about it as a fantasy.” Admits Caede, who slips into a flashback. Reminiscing to an earlier period in life, Caede watches a movie, enraptured, as a character in pants kneels before a standing woman in a fancy dress. “Y’know like being a queen with a loyal butler.”
“Good stuff!” Winks the domme, as her chibi head pops into the memory.
“I write books like that, but I don’t know if that’s also what I want in real life.” Caede continues, recalling a time when they were tapping away at a laptop in a cafe.
“Hey, fiction’s a great start!” The domme’s chibi head pops in again to a new scene in a busy comic convention. A younger version of the domme is exploring the crowded convention floor, dressed in elf ears with a little crown and cute dress. “I’ve got cosplay to thank for my confidence.” Without realizing it, Caede sits behind her, signing books at a table.
“For real?!” Caede’s chibi head pops in over the convention scene. “Maybe we’ve met at a ComicCon without realizing!”
Back to the current event, the domme replies, “See? We’re not that different. You just need some practice.”
“I guess you’re right!” Agrees Caede, mustering courage.
“Why don’t you try it now?” Asks the domme.
“NOW?!” Frets Caede, all pretenses of confidence immediately evaporating.
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“You don’t have to do anything you don’t want to.” The domme reassures Caede. “And you don’t have to act like someone you’re not.”
After pondering for a moment, Caede tentatively announces, “Okay, I wanna give it a try!”
With a haughty look, the domme declares towards a crowd of chatting people, “Oh, I’m so thirsty. If only my pup was around.”
Immediately, a young man with floppy brown hair springs forward, answering, “You called?” Shorter than both the domme and Caede, he wears a short-sleeved gray shirt, black vest and pants, sporting a sort of bartender look. His vibe is friendly and a little shy.
“Um…” Caede starts, a little nervously, and then gaining confidence continues, “Be a good boy and get us some water, yeah?”
The subs face lights up, and electric charge hitting him and eliciting a wordless “!!!” After a moment he returns with two waters on a tray, which he offers with a bowed head.
“Good puppy!!” Coos Caede aloud, and then thinks to herself, “Oh my gosh, his face! Being a domme is awesome!”
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“Sorry,” Caede quickly snaps back to the moment, looking a little anxious. “was it okay to call you that?”
“Of course! I loved it!” The sub enthuses.
With her hand on the sub’s back, the domme smiles slyly at Caede, “Not bad, huh? So…” The domme leans over to Caede, putting a hand on their shoulder. “Still feel like an impostor?”
“Nope!” Caede chirps. “This feels right!” Gaining confidence, they add, “Now I really wanna call soeone mine. And give headpats, and tease them, and…”
“Haha! You hear that, pup?” Asks the domme slyly to her sub. “Our new friend needs help so what’re you waiting for?”
“Y-yes, Mistress!” He jumps to respond, and then kneels before Caede. “May I introduce you to the other subs?”
“Oh!” They respond in surprised delight, and then calmly adds, “You may.”
The domme stands by proudly behind them, enjoying her class of water and excited to see the blossoming of a fellow femdom.
Transcribed by Erika Moen on June 30, 2025 for ohjoysextoy.com