The Ultimate Guide to Penis Toys

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On May 31, 2025

Sex toys are for everyone, no matter what “equipment” you’re working with. While toys for people with vulvas tend to get the most attention, there are many brands out there that make toys specifically for people with penises –– and many people who want to buy and use them.

If you’ve made it here, you’re likely one of those people. What are penis toys? Simply put, these are male pleasure devices, designed to enhance your experience, whether it’s during solo play or partnered sex. Although many people may feel weary bringing it up to a partner, it’s perfectly normal (and encouraged) to use penis toys during partnered sex.

Not sure where to start? Consider this your guide covering the best sex toys for men, including different types, benefits, how to use them, and safety tips.

Benefits of Using Penis Toys

So why would someone want to use male sex toys? Well, first off, you don’t need a reason outside of your own curiosity and desire to try something new!

Still, we want you to be as well-informed as possible about your pleasure, so take a look at just a few of the many incredible benefits of using penis toys:

Enhances orgasms and sexual pleasure: Toys help to stimulate different areas of the penis and prostate, meaning increased penis stimulation.
Improves stamina and control: Some toys can help train you so you have increased sexual endurance.
Great for solo and partner play: Penis toys are great whether you’re by yourself, or with a partner (or multiple partners)!
Helps with erection and sensitivity issues: Penis pumps and rings can help to enhance firmness and pleasure for everyone.

Types of Penis Toys & How They Work

The world of penis toys is wide and vast with a wide range of different gadgets and gizmos. Here are some of the top types of penis toys:

Masturbation Sleeves (Best for Realistic Sensations)

These are stroking devices made with a soft, textured interior that gives intense stroking sensations.

These are the most popular types of masturbation sleeves:

Pocket strokers: Compact and discreet
Full-Length strokers: Mimic real penetration.
High-tech strokers: Vibrating or app-controlled versions.

Cock Rings (Best for Stamina & Harder Erections)

Cock rings might be the most well-known penis toy out there. They work by restricting blood flow to help prolong erections and enhance sensitivity.

There are a few different types of cock rings on the market:

Silicone rings: Soft and stretchy for comfort.
Vibrating penis rings: Adds stimulation for both partners.
Metal cock rings: For firmer, more intense constriction.

Penis Pumps (Best for Erection Enhancement)

Another well known penis toy is the penis pump. These devices use suction to increase blood flow for harder, longer-lasting erections.

There are three main types of penis pumps:

Manual penis pumps: Hand-pump for controlled pressure.
Electric penis pumps: Automatic suction for ease of use.
Hydro pumps: Water-based suction for gentler enhancement.

Prostate Massagers (Best for P-Spot Stimulation & Orgasms)

If you’re not familiar with the prostate, or you haven’t explored it yet, then this one’s for you. Prostate massagers target the prostate (sometimes called the male G-Spot, or P-spot) for deep, full-body orgasms.

There are a few different types of prostate massagers available:

Vibrating prostate massagers: Provide rhythmic stimulation.
Non-vibrating massagers: Relies on movement and manual control.
Remote-controlled massagers: For hands-free or partner-controlled pleasure.

Vibrating Penis Toys (Best for Additional Sensation)

Have you ever tried a penis vibrator? Well, you might want to start because they can sure pack a punch in the pleasure department. They work by adding vibrations to different areas of the penis for increased stimulation and pleasure.

Here are some popular types of vibrating penis toys:

Penis vibrators: Wrap around or attach to the shaft.
Head stimulators: Focus vibrations on the tip of the penis.
App-controlled vibrators: Can be controlled remotely for partner play.

Penis Extenders & Sleeves (Best for Partner Play Enhancement)

If you want to up your partner play experience, then penis extenders may be for you. These devices add length, girth, or texture to the penis.

There are a few different types of penis extenders and sleeves:

Soft extenders: Increase size while maintaining natural feel.
Textured sleeves: Add ribbed or bumpy sensations for partner pleasure.
Open-ended sleeves: Allow direct stimulation while adding girth.

How to Use Penis Toys for Maximum Pleasure

Now that you have a full rundown of the types of penis toys available, hopefully you’re feeling inspired. You might even start to have ideas flooding in about just how to use your new toys.

If you want to maximize your pleasure, you’ll need to remember some vital tips. First off, as with any toy, you’ll likely want to use lube. Always use water-based or silicone-based lube (depending on what materials your toy is made from) for comfort.

We encourage you to experiment with your new toy by trying different speeds and techniques. Try switching between stroking, vibration, and edging to find what you like best! Know that you can use these toys during foreplay and sex, cock rings and vibrators for example, can enhance penetration, but really you can try using any toy with a partner as a way to deepen intimacy and connection.

Another way many people use their penis toys is to help them control their orgasms. Some toys, like a stamina trainer, help train stamina and delay ejaculation.

How to Choose the Right Penis Toy for You

With so many options to choose from, how do you decide what penis toy is right for you?

This is your body and your pleasure, so you need to consider your needs. Are you looking for a product that offers stamina training, increased intimacy with your partner, enhanced sensation, or prostate stimulation?

Another crucial thing to consider is the materials a toy is made from. Toys made from body-safe silicone or medical-grade materials help to ensure comfort and longevity. You’ll also want to look at the size and fit of a toy. Make sure any ring, pump, or stroker you buy is the right size for your body. Otherwise, you may find yourself in an uncomfortable situation!

Once you decide what type of toy you want, also reflect on any special features you’re looking for. Do you want your toy to vibrate, be remote-controlled, or be waterproof? Then look for toys that offer that!

Penis Toy Safety Tips & Best Practices

As with any new toy, you can help make your experience as comfortable and enjoyable as possible by following some basic safety tips and best practices.

So keep these in mind when you take your new toy for a spin:

Use plenty of lube → Lube helps prevent friction and enhances comfort. Without it, you may cause friction burns or discomfort. Just make sure the lube you use is compatible with your toy!
Clean your toys after every use → Use a toy cleaner or mild soap and water every time you use your toy. If you don’t, it can cause bacterial buildup, which can break down the material of your toy and potentially lead to infection.
Don’t overuse cock rings or pumps → Follow the instructions closely and only use these for devices for the recommended time limits. Overusing them can potentially cause circulation issues.
Choose the right size → A toy that’s too tight or too loose can cause discomfort.
Choose the right toy for your needs → Not all penis toys work the same way so choose one according to your body and your needs and desires.
Check for any allergic reactions → Always choose toys made from body-safe, non-toxic materials.

Advanced Penis Toys & High-Tech Innovations

Sex tech is rapidly advancing, that includes the world of penis toys. If you want a high-tech sexual pleasure experience, then you may want to explore the world of advanced penis toys.

This market is growing rapidly, and we’re so excited to be part of the charge. One exciting development is smart and app-controlled strokers. These devices sync to videos or remote partners so you can feel like you’re close to your partner, even if they’re halfway across the world.

We’re seeing AI revolutionize a wide range of industries. AI-enhanced masturbators are designed to learn and adjust to your personal preferences the more that you use them, making for a completely customized experience.

Another high-tech innovation we’re fascinated by are VR-compatible penis toys. These toys pair with virtual reality for an immersive experience.

Conclusion

Feeling inspired to up your sexual wellness game by exploring the world of penis toys? From cock rings to strokers to prostate massagers, you have so many different options to choose from.

So why choose just one? Wink, wink. This is your body, your pleasure, and your opportunity to explore different options so you can find what works best for you. So explore our top-rated penis toys and get ready for a whole new world of pleasure whether you’re flying solo or playing with a partner.

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