How to Have an A-Spot Orgasm With A Vibrator?

Most of us know about the G-spot (and a generation can thank Sex And The City for that!), but are you familiar with the A-spot? This new destination is very real, and you’ll be glad that you took the time to explore. Rachel Sommer, our Ph.D. clinical sexologist, will be our guide in this article.

All About the A-Spot

Its full name is the Anterior Fornix Erogenous Zone, but it’s better known by its nickname, A-spot. The A-spot is located on the anterior front vaginal wall. Depending on your own personal anatomy, it may feel like a tiny round knob or a smooth soft patch.

You can use your fingers or your favorite dildo to find your G-spot first, and then go a bit (or a bit more than a bit) deeper. Point your fingers (palm up) or dildo towards your belly button, curve your fingers, and make a gentle “come-hither” motion. Do not be discouraged if it takes a few tries to find it — this is mostly uncharted territory for many of us!

This Sounds Complicated!

Well, maybe. Good things often are, and vaginas can be deep and mysterious sometimes. You will probably agree with us that it’s worth it, though. Stimulating the A-spot will increase blood flow in the area. This makes us wetter and also makes orgasms more powerful. A-spot orgasms have been described as “all-encompassing.”

Malaysian sexologist Dr. Chua Chee Ann has written extensively about the A-spot and how it can address sexual dysfunctions that some women face. We told you above that A-spot stimulation can increase wetness; this is because there is a neural pathway that controls reflex vaginal lubrication. Once you’ve found your A-spot, you will notice a difference within seconds. This natural lubrication can alleviate discomfort and improve sex for both partners.

Dr. Ann’s research on the AFE (anterior fornix erogenous) Zone Stimulation Technique found that about two-thirds of his subjects reported significant improvement in their sex lives, particularly women who had previously suffered chronic vaginal dryness and consequently painful intercourse. This is important and beneficial for women who wish to address sexual dysfunction without medical intervention.

Unsurprisingly, the increased lubrication and sensitivity that comes from A-spot stimulation also helps create incredibly powerful orgasms. Women who have successfully navigated to an A-spot orgasm report that it is an intense full-body experience with numerous aftershocks.

Vibrators and the A-Spot

Because the A-spot sits so deep inside the vagina, sometimes fingers or a penis just aren’t enough. This is one of the rare occasions where size actually does matter. Your favorite bullet just isn’t going to be enough here. Choose a vibrator that can go as deep as you need it to. Shape matters, too; you’ll want something with a gentle curve.

You’re going to want to settle in for the long haul. A-spot orgasms are almost never quickies. Find a position that you can hold comfortably. Lying or leaning back with your knees bent, either feet on bed or knees to chest, works well for many women. You may also like lying on your back with a pillow or wedge underneath your rear end to lift you up for better access.

And even though A-spot stimulation produces a lot of natural lubricant, you’re going to want to start off with plenty of good water-based lube. It will be a lot easier to find that A-spot if your vibrator can slip and slide easily. You’ll also be going pretty deep, and you’ll appreciate the extra lubrication.

Once you think that you’ve located your A-spot, then you get to figure out what kind of stimulation works best for you. Feel free to experiment with everything your vibrator has to offer; play around with different patterns and intensities.

Remember that A-spot orgasms can take some time. You may feel a sense of pressure as you approach orgasm. Also remember that the A-spot houses a neural pathway that controls reflex vaginal lubrication, so don’t be surprised if you are significantly wetter than usual.

Partnered Sex and the A-Spot

We’ve talked about how to find and stimulate your A-spot on your own, but you can also experiment with a partner using fingers, a penis, a strap-on, or a vibrator (or any combination of these good things). The A-spot is very deep inside the vagina, so it may not always be easily accessible during intercourse, but couples have reported success with the following:

• Deep Thrusts: In this variation on missionary, you’ll lie on your back, bend your legs, and spread them wide. Ask your penetrating partner to lift your bent legs and press them towards your chest. This position shortens the vaginal canal and brings the A-spot closer, so your partner may be able to reach it during penetrative sex.
• Doggy-Style: Here, you will be on your hands and knees, facing downwards. You may want to prop yourself up with a cushion or wedge under your midsection. Your penetrating partner will kneel behind you and enter you. You can ask your partner to grab your hips and lift them slightly to create a better angle. This position works for anal sex as well as vaginal, and some experts think that it’s even easier to target the A-spot during anal sex.
• Reverse Cowgirl: The penetrating partner will lie on their back and you can mount them, facing away. Once you’re comfortably settled, you can arch your back or lean in, which changes the angle of penetration and makes it more likely that your partner will hit your A-spot. This can also work with the penetrating partner sitting up and you, again, mounting them facing away.

You and your partner may have found your own favorite positions for G-spot stimulation. What works for G-spot stimulation is likely to also work for A-spot stimulation if you are able to tweak things so that the penetrating partner can get a little bit deeper and, ideally, angled towards the front.

Kissing Cousins: The A-Spot and the G-Spot

Both the G-spot and the A-spot are located on the anterior vaginal wall, but the A-spot is deeper than the G-spot. Most people report that the G-spot is somewhat easier to find, in part because almost all fingers or penises can reach it. The G-spot also has a distinct spongy texture, while the A-spot can feel smooth like the rest of the vaginal wall. And while A-spot stimulation produces increased vaginal lubrication, G-spot orgasms are typically associated with “squirting.”

Vibrators marketed as “G-spot vibrators” are usually long, slender, and slightly curved. This makes them ideal for A-spot stimulation as well. You’ll probably want a vibrator at least five inches long if you’re looking for it to hit your A-spot. Other than that, this is a very personal choice! Different people have different preferences, and what works well for one vagina may not work as well for another.

These are our favorite G-spot vibrators, and we hope you find one that hits the spot(s) for you!

Last Words

In this article, we discussed anatomy and technique. This is always tricky, because every body is different and everybody likes different things. We think that it’s pretty neat that this little bundle of nerves has the capacity to address some types of sexual dysfunction! But we also know that some women have difficulty locating their A-spot, and some may find it frustrating that A-spot orgasms don’t come quickly, so to speak.

As always, we’re here because we want to help you have fun. If something isn’t working, you don’t have to keep trying! A-spot orgasms feel great if and when they happen. If they are not happening for you, that’s okay, because there are plenty of other things that also feel great.

Happy vibing!

Rachel

Rachel is a clinical sexologist with a focus on LGBTQ+ and BIPOC issues. Originally from Texas, she loves sushi, white wine, and spending time with her partner Jessica. She has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Yahoo.com, Women’s Health, Healthline, Glamour, and MindBodyGreen.
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