Strap-On-Me Remote Control Vibrating Strapless Strap-On Review

Technology: where would we be without it? We couldn’t fly to visit loved ones, take a nice hot bath while listening to a favorite playlist, or penetrate someone even while penis-less. Consider the Strap-On-Me Silicone Vibrating Remote Control Strapless Strap-On, for instance. This is technology at its sexiest. There’s no harness necessary, thanks to its ergonomic design, and it has three powerful motors and a remote control for ease of use. Is it worth the $150 price tag? Let’s find out in this review.

Key Takeaways

Not for newbies, this strap-on is the perfect choice for strap-on devotees. With surprising power, a rechargeable remote, and posability, it is comfortable, easy to use, and luxurious. However, if you need long play sessions, choose something with a more prolific battery life.

Who Should Try It? If you’ve tried strap-ons before and want something high-end, the Strap-On-Me is an excellent purchase.

Who Can Skip It? If you’ve never tried pegging before, you may want to grab something a little more affordable in case you or your partner doesn’t enjoy it. Consider Eve’s Vibrating Strapless Strap-On, which is $100, but occasionally on sale for much less.

You Can Buy It on the Lovehoney website for $149. Use discount code AFF-MSTG10 for 10% off!

What Is the Strap-On-Me Strapless Strap-On?

The Strap-On-Me Vibrating Strap-On is the latest in harness-free penetration. It works for any gender if both people enjoy penetration. It’s a cinch to use, thanks to the remote control which lets you change the settings without getting out of position. This strap-on boasts three motors: two internal (one for each person) and one external clitoral vibrator. Each motor has three intensity levels, and the motors are independently controllable, giving you the ultimate in customizable pegging experiences.

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First Impressions and Features

Unboxing

The unboxing experience was a thrill and everything came well-packaged. As you can see in the image below, the box looks techy rather than salacious, which is my preference. It comes with a storage bag, though not a discreet one, since it says “strap-on-me” on the outside. It doesn’t come with lube, so don’t forget to keep some handy.

Features

The Strap-On-Me Vibrating Bendable Strap-on has luxe features, including:

• Waterproof, luxurious material
• Three powerful, independently controllable motors
• Rechargeable strap-on and remote control

Specifications

Strap-On-Me Strapless Strap-On specifications at a glance:

• Material: Silicone
• Size: 6.5” insertable length; 4.5” circumference (for size M)
• Color: Fuchsia, purple, or black
• Mechanism: Vibrating strapless strap-on that stimulates the P-spot, clit, and G-spot
• Weight: 10.5 oz

How Do I Use the Strap-On-Me Strapless Strap-On?

The first thing on your to-do list after receiving this strap-on is to grab some water-based lubricant. You don’t want silicone lubricant since this vibrator is made from silicone, so grab your preferred brand on your next trip to the store.

Next, charge it. The website estimated that it would last forty minutes and then take two hours to charge. When I tested it, it lasted fifty-three minutes on the first setting and took three hours to charge. That’s not an amazing charge-to-use ratio.

Then wash it with warm water and antibacterial soap or a sex toy cleaner. Lube up your partner, yourself, and the toy. The trickiest part about using a strapless strap-on is finding the right amount of lubricant. Too much and you’ll have trouble keeping it in place; too little and you’ll both be uncomfortable. Start with a little, but be prepared to use more. If you get too much, you may have to hold the strap-on in place with your hand or wash it off and start over.

Next, press the power button. The strap-on will vibrate when ready to pair with the remote. Then, press the power button on the remote control. The buttons have images that show which vibrator you’re operating, and you can experiment with the intensity levels on the different vibrators.

Insert the strap-on into the tightest entrance first. Then, the other wearer can hop on. Use your PC muscles to clench internally and keep it in place. When you’ve both finished, wash it and store it in the included bag.

You can learn more about how to use a strapless strap-on in this guide.

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My Personal Experience

Strapless strap-ons used to be something I thought was merely for adult content creators. I have a relatively healthy pelvic floor, but even so, controlling a vibrating dildo can feel like a tall order. Thankfully, sex tech designers are dreaming up more comfortable, clenchable shapes.

When the product, I’m not sure who was more excited: me or my partner. I received the size M vibrating bendable strap-on, which was perfect for both of us. It’s long but not overly girthy, so it doesn’t take too long to get accustomed to. But it is rather heavy.

The remote control claimed that it would work up to ten meters away. When I tested it, it worked like a charm from ten meters away and just a bit farther. So, you could give this to a cuck in a cuck chair, if that’s your thing.

When you’re using a couple’s product that is inside both of you, a remote control is key. Stopping to fumble around for a button to change the intensity can ruin your orgasm momentum, so I enjoyed controlling the settings without interruption. I also loved that the remote control is rechargeable and uses the same cord as the toy. Not only does that mean I don’t have an extra cord to lose, but I can also charge them both at the same time. This is a lifesaver for anyone with ADHD or neurodivergence or any kind.

My partner and I were both impressed with the deep, rumbly, all-over vibrations. Having the ability to control the motors separately was a significant upgrade over other strap-ons we have used. We also loved the straplessness; it feels more intimate without any visible reminders of the toy. It stayed in place better than many others, but I did end up getting my fishnets with a hole in them for extra stability. Overall, we agreed that the materials and remote control on this strap-on were more luxurious than most others we’ve tried.

Packaging

The packaging was great: to the point yet including thoughtful extras, without being so lavish that you worry most of your money went toward the unboxing experience. The Strap-On-Me comes with a storage bag, double-ended charging cable for the remote control and the vibrator, the strap-on, remote control, and the instructions. There isn’t any lube, so grab some water-based next time you’re at the store.

Design

The Strap-On-Me Remote Control Strapless Strap-On’s design feels high-end and thoughtful. It’s bendable, posable, and yet somehow sturdy. It never felt fragile and seems like it is built to last. The bulbous internal arm is shaped perfectly, meaning it’s large enough to hold onto without too much effort on the part of the penetrator. However, it can feel heavy after a while, so if you have a weak pelvic floor, consider finding something more lightweight.

The remote control’s design is excellent as well. It’s easy to use, whether you’ve read the instructions or not. Each motor is independently controllable, and it’s clear which button directs which motor.

Material

The material is silky and gorgeous. Plus, it is waterproof, making it travel-friendly and easy to clean. The box showed a firmness scale that ranged from ultra-soft to strong, and this dildo was rated as soft. I didn’t see an option on the website to choose your own level of firmness, but it’s a helpful indicator of how rigid you can expect the strap-on to be.

Stimulations

The power is incredible. I turned it on to the initial setting and was blown away. The initial setting is the medium one, and from there you can choose one higher or one lower setting. The internal bulb has intense, rumbly vibrations. The power at the tip of the strap-on is remarkable, though more on the buzzy side. After half an hour of play, it started to get warm, but not alarmingly so. The power and shape would work well for solo use, whether you’re interested in giving your P-spot, G-spot, or clit a little vibration.

The reason this strap-on packs such a wallop is due to the three motors. One resides in the internal egg of the penetrating partner, another at the base for the penetrating partner’s clit, and one at the tip for the penetrated partner. Even the lowest setting may be overwhelming if you have a sensitive G-spot or P-spot.

Sound Level

Something with this much power is typically loud, and while this strap-on isn’t silent, it’s not as loud as it could be. When I tested the decibels, they ranged from 56 to 63.

Build Quality and Dimensions

The build quality is incredible. This is one of the most well-constructed strap-ons I’ve had the pleasure of using.

The dimensions are mid-range for the person being penetrated. The bulbous shape of the internal arm for the penetrator is both more intimidating and easier to grip.

Ease of Use

Strap-ons take a little bit of practice before you become a pro, but the Strap-On-Me Silicone Strapless Strap-on makes pegging and penetration as simple as possible. The usual difficulties will be shared with any strapless strap-on you choose, including learning how to thrust without it coming out of position and taking the time to warm your partner up before insertion.

What makes Strap-On-Me singularly easy to use is the remote control. You can operate the motors independently and intuitively, so you and your partner can individually choose settings that work for you.

Versatility

I was pleased by how versatile this strap-on turned out to be! It will work for couples of any gender if both parties are interested in penetration. Strapless strap-ons are not just for hetero couples looking to branch out; they’re also perfect for trans couples who want something gender-affirming. You can also use it as an external vibrator.

Warranty and Support

Strap-On-Me offers a 24-month warranty against manufacturing and material defects.

Minor Issues I Found During Testing

The battery life is the biggest issue I found with this strap-on. It’s so powerful, but the lowest setting drains the battery within an hour. If you don’t keep one eye on the clock, you could end up with a dead toy before either of you climaxes.

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Review Summary

Pros

• Powerful vibrations
• Three stimulating motors, independently controllable
• Rechargeable strap-on and remote control via one cord
• Comes with a storage bag

Cons

• Battery life is short, especially on higher settings

Alternatives to the Strap-On-Me Strapless Strap-On

Lovehoney Desire Luxury

The Lovehoney Desire Luxury is a strapless strap-on that costs $120. It comes with a remote control, is posable, and vibrates, too. It comes with a storage bag that you can charge the toy in. So how can you tell which one will work better for you? Key differences include the Desire Luxury’s shorter insertable length (just 4.5”), that it has almost double the battery life, and the motors can’t be controlled independently, so both partners will be enjoying the same vibrating sensations. The Strap-On-Me was easier for me to keep in place, but people who like longer pegging sessions should stick with the Desire Luxury.

Lovense Lapis

The Lovense Lapis is a double-ended strap-on that costs $259. It doesn’t come with a remote control, but it does come with an app, making it a little more customizable, thanks to the extra capabilities. It has a smaller penetration length but is lightweight and posable. For the money, I would choose the Strap-On-Me, thanks to the remote control and easy-to-grip internal bulb. But if you are in a long-distance relationship, the app-controllability may tip the scales in favor of the Lovense Lapis.

Do you want more options? We have tested many more strapless strap-ons in this article.

I am Sold! Where can I buy it?

Grab your vibrating, remotely controllable strap-on here.

Thanks for reading my Strap-On-Me Remote Control Vibrating Strapless Strap-On review!

Angela

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Angela Kempf is a Denver-based writer whose sexual health writings have been published in a number of notable online publications. She enjoys B movies, yoga, traveling, and puns. When she’s not reading or writing, she’s usually on the hunt for the best tacos in town.
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