5 Best Heated Sex Toys

Heated sex toys are used to increase pleasure during masturbation and intercourse by providing a warm sensation to simulate human flesh. These devices are soft on the outside and warm up on the press of a button, which improves blood circulation and relaxes the muscles, resulting in greater arousal and intense orgasms. Premier heating sex toys offer multiple warming levels, strong vibrations, powerful thrusting motion, and the ability to be regulated remotely. Let’s explore what we recommend in this article.

Why You Should Trust Us

Since 2016, Sandra Larson has been a key figure here at My Sex Toy Guide. She has been instrumental in building our website into one of the largest sexual wellness sites on the Internet, and has tested well over 100 products over the years.

For this article, Sandra collaborated with her husband and co-founder, Tim, to explore the best-selling warming toys for men and women. The two sex experts used their decades of industry experience to dig through dozens of products and eventually came up with these top 5 picks.

1. We-Vibe Temp: Best for Women!

Why we love the We-Vibe Temp:

The main reason we crowned We-Vibe Temp as the best heated sex toy is that, unlike other products that can merely warm up, the We-Vibe Temp’s new technology, ‘temperature play,’ has both heating and chilling capabilities. This device can warm up to about 100°F/38°C and cool down to about 68°F/20°C, a nice range, in Sandra Larson’s opinion.

This team also appreciated the level of accuracy in the heat and cool control system. Both of these could be varied almost instantly. This made them faster and more friendly compared to those of their competitors. Even the one-way system of Satisfyer, Lovense, and LELO models was slower.

There were three distinct modes of vibration, along with adjustable speeds, which felt extremely powerful. The sex toy came with its own unique growl sound, which did not take long to start. On top of that, the buzzing function, together with the warmth and coolness, made the We-Vibe Temp very pleasurable to use.

We also noted that a lot of thought has been put into the design, from the button placement (image above), which doesn’t intrude, to the sleek design that fits flush between the user and the mattress and doesn’t tip over.

Minor issues we found during testing:

We were a bit concerned with moderate temperature settings because they limited what the more experienced folks could do. We-Vibe regulates the heat output to protect users from painful burn injuries.

If you want to see what the We-Vibe Temp looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

Features:

• Material: Silicone
• Size: 2.6in x 3.8in
• Colors: Blue and Tangerine

Pros:

• It offers innovative heating and cooling technologies.
• A dual-temp control for precision.
• Multiple vibration settings.
• An ergonomic design.
• It is 100% waterproof.

Cons:

• It’s not ideal for extreme temp play lovers.

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2. Blowmotion: Best for Men!

Why we love Blowmotion:

The Blowmotion was rated as easy to hold with one hand, according to the test team. The location of the buttons was also very good because it made it easy to regulate the masturbator without stopping the fun. On top of that, the radiance that it produced was experienced throughout the 3-inch Canal, offering better coverage.

Aside from this functional aspect of warming, we enjoyed the range in levels of vibration, which we rated higher than the other review samples. As Sandra Larson comments, “The 6 patterns and 3 intensities outmatched the We-Vibe Temp in its capabilities, and Tim was ready to put the muscles to the test.”

It was different from the other products we tested because it centered the sensations on the penis head, which made it a good option for edging. For example, you can switch from the lowest to the strongest mode based on experiences and desires you’ve been trying to achieve. “It was easy for me to switch off the Blowmotion in the middle of an edging session to shut down all the stimulation,” Tim Larson told me.

As far as flexibility is concerned, my colleagues liked that it’s compact, has a long battery life, and is user-friendly. Since it’s only splash-proof, this masturbator still has quite an array of functions that would be attractive to men who want a warm sex aid in the bedroom.

Other Good Alternatives:

• Lovense Calor is a decent option for men who seek to control the warmth using an app instead of manual controls. It comes with compatibility with the Lovense Remote app, which means you can create new patterns, set your favorite vibration levels, synchronize the vibration with music, and so forth.
• Lovehoney Hot Shot is an accessible and heatable sexual device that is good for people with a limited budget. Selling at a special offer of $49.99, this is a steal for the portable and rechargeable masturbation machine. Its small size and soft silicone material significantly simplified handling. And with 6 patterns and 3 speeds, you have a nice range of sensations to enjoy.

Minor issues we found during testing:

The masturbator was loud in higher settings and thus not ideal for someone living in a shared space. You might have to play music or use a heavy comforter to mask the noise.

You can read our full Blowmotion Warming Male Masturbator review here.

Features:

• Material: Silicone and ABS Plastic
• Usable Length: 3in

Pros:

• A compact size.
• Canal with evenly distributed warmth
• It has different vibration modes.
• It is suitable for edging.
• A universal masturbator.

Cons:

• It only targets the head of your penis.
• Noticeable noise at high levels.

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3. Lovense Osci 3: Best for G-Spot Stimulation!

Why We Love Lovense Osci 3:

The new oscillations are one of the strongest selling points of the Lovense Osci 3. The waveform shaft is equipped with a thumping action oscillating to 6,000 times per minute as opposed to traditional vaginal stimulation sex toys whose manual or mechanical thrusting is limited to about 1,600. These vibrations mimic the effect of fingering, exerting tremendous pressure on the G-spots without manual stimulation. The testers said that the experience was more realistic and profound, leading to stronger orgasms.

The team was also taken aback by the unusual design. According to the brand’s website, the angle of the insertable arm was 52 degrees upwards. According to Sandra Larson, the curved shape helped me to reach the front vaginal wall easier. On top of that, I was in love with the way the soft and silky silicone caressed my vagina and the bulbous head glided well through the vaginal wall with a splash of water lube.

The user experience was great due to its two-button control system and the Lovense Remote app, which was user-friendly. We have tried a lot of Lovense sex toys over the years and their application is the easiest to use. Full stop. The website also includes videos of the different functions and how the app works, which is perfect for visual learners who do not appreciate reading instructions.

Overall, the team reported that it was simple to connect the masturbator and the mobile application. What was most notable: listening to music and locking it to the experience so that you can use your hands free to control it. Some reviewers also raved about the experience of syncing it with the voice of their lover, emphasizing it worked out very well.

Note: There are other apps like the Lovense Connect, which allow cam models to control the tipping experience for maximum returns and better engagement from the audience. It is also possible to connect the Lovense Remote app with several sex toys so you can control them more centrally.

Minor issues we found during testing:

The biggest concern was the buzzing sensations. They were a bit limiting and those who require more profound, rumbling vibrations will have to look elsewhere.

Moreover, the price of the model ranges from $99 to $199. This is quite steep for most users.

If you want to see what Lovense Osci 3 looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

Features:

• Material: Silicone
• Insertable Length: 4.42in

Pros:

• Unique oscillations, imitating the fingering.
• The curved angle provides more accuracy.
• Amazing dual stimulation
• Intuitive Lovense Remote app.
• Strong, sturdy materials

Cons:

• Buzzing vibrations can be annoying.

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4. Lovense Spinel: Best Heated Sex Machine!

Why we love Lovense Spinel:

The heating option in the Lovense Spinel sex machine did a good job mimicking the human body temperature, thus enhancing immersion and relaxation during use. It reaches as far as 109 degrees, and blends well with the thrusting and vibration patterns brilliantly to provide a wholesome experience. Its thrusting feature also had different speeds ranging between 395 and 1450 thrusts with four patterns and three intensities.

Sex machines are generally gigantic and extremely conspicuous. Such is not the case in the Lovense Spinel. The device was very portable, and extra attachments, like the suction cup base, further simplified handling. Its suction base was adjustable up to 150 degrees, offering more penetration angles.

The handheld sex machine was also much more versatile than those of the competition. To begin with, the package contained a variety of attachments, such as a straight dildo, a curved one (image below), and a clitoral stimulator. Although the curved dildo lacked the warming option, the rest had it, which made it possible to play with thrusting, vibrations, and heating functions.

The other reason why we selected it as the best warming sex machine was its compatibility with the Lovense Remote app. The mobile application lets you match the sensations with noise in the house or music so that you can enjoy a hands-free experience. You can also email a link to your partner so that they can regulate the fun regardless of the distance.

Minor issues we found during testing:

Sadly, the curved dildo can only go up and down for G-spot stimulation without vibrating. Lovense should add vibration capabilities to the dildo to marry its precise targeting with the fingering motion’s impressive G-spot targeting.

The motor also shorted when under pressure. The moment we pushed against the base of the machine, the thrust would suddenly be gone.

If you want to see what Lovense Spinel looks like and how to use it, please watch our unboxing and demonstration video below:

Features:

• Material: Silicone & ABS plastic
• Curved Dildo: 3.44in
• Straight Dildo: 5.29in

Pros:

• Turning, vibrational, and heating functions
• A portable and compact design.
• It connects to the Lovense Remote app.
• Impressive versatility
• Suitable for solo masturbation and partnered experiences.

Cons:

• It is not suitable for anal intercourse.
• The thrust ends because of pressure on the base.

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5. Fleshlight Sleeve Warmer: Best for Heating Fleshlights!

Why We Love Fleshlight Sleeve Warmer:

When it comes to sleeve warmers, this Fleshlight product impressed us the most due to its precision and reliability in heating. It uses a heating rod that warms the SuperSkin body so that the warmth can be nearly the same as inside a real orifice.

The simplicity of the heating rod, as well as its vertical nature, are among the features that our test team noted. For example, the legs at the lower part are non-slip so that the device does not tip easily when in use.

Unlike some of the other more complicated heating devices, the Fleshlight warmer was simple to use, and anyone can use it. All you have to do is insert it into the wall plug, fit the sleeve on the rod, and then wait 5-10 minutes. We also appreciated that it automatically shuts down when it reaches optimal temperature and then switches on when cooled down.

The convenient sleeve warmer works with various masturbators, including the Quickshot series. It is a good substitute for the conventional process of dipping the sleeve in the warm water because you don’t have to deal with dripping and cleaning spills.

Minor issues we found during testing:

Of course, the important issue was design. It was not very heavy because it was designed to be light, however, because of its size, four legs, and the included USB cable it was quite difficult to carry and hide.

We also noted that the entrance area does not get the heating, which was a slight bummer (but not a showstopper).

You can read our full review of the Fleshlight Sleeve Warmer in this article.

Pros:

• Material: ABS Plastic
• Length: 9.25in

Cons:

• Accurate and even warming.
• Simplistic and easy-to-use.
• The most versatile sleeve warmer.
• Quick heating speed.
• Sturdy, non-slip base.

Cons:

• It is not convenient for traveling purposes.
• The tall structure may be difficult to conceal.

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Sandra studied nursing and sexual health and is named one of the world’s top 50 sexologists. She founded My Sex Toy Guide in 2016, where she and a team of experts write about relationships, LGBTQ topics, and other sexuality issues. She has been featured in Men’s Health, Wedding Wire, InsideHook, ThriveGlobal, and more.
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